Ten fatal weaknesses for men
Why are dignified men upset?
We asked 10 men to tell you the thing that made him crazy . Xiongfeng no longer men always like to brag about how powerful their bed is in front of brothers and women.
There are many ways he knows only the woman who goes to bed with him, but of course he must lose in front of others.
Regarding sex, men love and hate. Men have deep fears of their sexual abilities in the bottom of their hearts. They are afraid that one day they will suddenly die in bed. The most proud little brother winces., Can no longer sing the flag-raising ceremony, look at the disappointed, even disgusting expression of the woman, thinking that he can no longer revive the glory, this nightmare may make men afraid to commit suicide.Will be popular all over the world, it is exactly hitting the man’s pain!
Case: John, 30 years old, DJ.
When he was 20 years old and young, he had a ridiculous life. At that time, his full desires had nowhere to vent, and he had no girlfriend. He called prostitutes almost every day, and half of his salary was spent on obscenity.And because the young people at that time spent their own money on being an uncle, he didn’t even care about the problem. Until he began to deal with girls seriously, he began to care about his performance on the bed.
”I’m worried that I can’t satisfy my woman. I’m also worried that I’m not big enough or long enough. I will pay attention to her reaction when I have sex. I will even ask her how many orgasms. If I am better than her previous man,.
It sounds stupid, but I just think it’s important to me.
“One time John drank a glass of wine, and when he wanted to have sex with his girlfriend at night, he couldn’t help it. There was no way to revive the glory. This really affected his self-esteem.
”At that time, I really wanted to die. What’s worse was that I was very angry and anxious, but I had to be calm. Fortunately, my girlfriend was very considerate. She didn’t laugh at me. Although she was a little disappointed, she was very gentle.It’s okay to admit that I comforted me and told me that it was because I was too tired and wanted me to take a good rest.
I think when a man fails, the woman ‘s reaction is very important. If the woman ‘s reaction is very serious, it ‘s really embarrassing. When I ‘m not able, my girlfriend ‘s support is very important!
But afterwards I went to the doctor secretly and asked the doctor if I needed to take Viagra.
“Poor without money is absolutely impossible. For men, being rich is like buying insurance. Being rich is the concept that many men believe in. Many men pursue their career success in their lives, and the so-called achievement is money.As a reasonable standard, being rich can have many material enjoyments, and even some men think that even women can be satisfied with money as long as they have money.
Case: A Qiang, 32 years old, staff.
“I was scared when I needed the money.
Before, I wanted to change a car. In order to pay, I carefully calculated my savings and found that I was really poor. After selling a few stocks in my hand, I barely owned the new car. Sadly, I did n’t have extra money to do it.Other things, traveling abroad, shopping, are all extravagant activities, let alone buying a house.
My salary is not high, but it is okay for the middle class, but the salary is never comparable to the price. Especially in Taipei, the house price is so expensive. I do n’t think I can even afford a toilet!
I have reached the age of marriage, and I am thinking about spending the second half of my life with my girlfriend, but I have been worried that the money we earn cannot afford a good living environment and quality of life.
“Aqiang said in depression.
The middle-aged unemployed workplace is the most noteworthy area in the life of many men, and it is also the place where men make use of their strengths. Although the unemployment rate in Taiwan is not high, it has entered the era of society and science and technology.
Worried that they can’t keep up with the times, more and more men will be eliminated.
Case: Xiaolu, 30 years old, media.
Xiao Lu, who works in the communications industry, said that he has always been aware of the crisis. The communications industry is at the forefront of social trends. Therefore, the industry is thirsty for talent and constantly needs new stimuli and new talents. Once your creativity is gone,The idea is old and is naturally eliminated.
”I am worried that the so-called middle-aged unemployment will happen to me.
In the eyes of others, I have a high-paying and challenging job, but the rate of wear and tear of such a job is very high, and I am afraid that one day I will really be eliminated by the society relentlessly!
“Cuckold Wang Yu not only took someone to catch her on the spot because she had another boyfriend, but also insisted on bringing a lawsuit. Wang Yu said,” Never let go of my wife who plays with my wife! ”
He has to pay!
“This scandal was full of storms and storms. Although the reconciliation ended, the whole process was as sensational as a serial.
If you think about it, even the heroes who have gone to the past in martial arts films can’t escape the end of cuckold. It can be seen that for ordinary men, girlfriends, wives and other people will run away with people, they are also afraid.
For a man, cuckold not only loses his face, but also makes friends around him feel that he is not good and has no charm. Otherwise, why would a woman run with others?
Cuckold can make men eager and aggressive, open the social edition of the newspaper, because a girlfriend or wife empathizes with love and revenge, there are many cases of love killings, showing how much cuckold’s lethality.
Case: Junhao, 28 years old, business.
Junhao often tells his girlfriend: “If you want to empathize, don’t let me know, the second is not to let my friends know, the third is not to mess with my friendsFuck!
“These three points sound funny, but they also truly reflect the fear in the heart of a man.
Junhao once had a girlfriend empathy and deep love. I was particularly touched. “I had a good relationship with my girlfriend. Later, I gradually discovered that she wasn’t right. When she dated me, she started to lose heart, and there were many strange things.The phone number and whereabouts are not clear.
One night she didn’t stay with me and didn’t go home. She said that she was with a good friend. I had just met that friend, and her lie was immediately taken apart.
After I kept asking, she said that another man was pursuing her recently and was with him that night.
Knowing that I’m wearing a green hat is really uncomfortable. Apart from upsetting her cheating, I will constantly wonder where I can’t compare to another man?And there is a feeling of being stepped on my feet, which is unpleasant, and of course it is a great blow to self-esteem!
“The affair revealed that many men can’t resist the temptation of affair. The freshness and excitement of affair is like the poison apple of Snow White. It has a fatal attraction to men. In addition to his wife, he has another woman, a relationship,One more woman loves you and cares for you, letting men meet the courage to go forward like a moth.
Although the affair’s taste is exciting and sweet, but once the affair is exposed and known by his wife, it can be enough for men to walk around, especially when a woman knows that her husband has an affair, and loves to hate and do n’t know what will happen.When letting men enjoy the affair, there is also a sense of uneasiness in the mind from time to time.
Case: Kevin, 33 years old, property.
I had an affair two years after marriage. The affair was a good friend for many years, maybe curious, or maybe the marriage life was too bland. One day, Kevin suddenly felt that he liked her, and started a passionate pursuit of her.The relationship also includes borders, with friends as a basis, and the two soon overlap and fall in love.
Kevin once again knew the sweetness of love, the pitfalls of love, and the feeling that only the next person was in his head.
However, the men and women in love are always prone to fainting. One day, something happened. Kevin’s wife learned about their relationship from the telephone record. The angry mood made her cry and make no noise, and she almost moved out even hanging.
”My wife really broke my mind when she got into trouble. After all, she has children. She is unlikely to divorce me, and of course I don’t want to divorce her.
Having an affair is of course happy, but I don’t want to get divorced because of an affair.
The affair was my fault, so I had to endure my wife’s trouble. Now she is staring at me very tightly every day. I call and track at any time. I must go home for dinner immediately after work. I am a little bit suspicious.The mental stress also made me have no heart to think about another woman.
Over time, my affair gradually faded, my wife was pretty good!
“Hey, a woman who is forced to marry loves a woman, but what a man is most afraid of is a woman, especially a woman of auntie and eighth wife.”
Case: Xiaowei, 31 years old, advertising.
“I really can’t stand how women can have so many gossips to talk about, the phone can’t finish talking, and my ears can’t help being quiet!
“At the age of 31, Xiao Wei couldn’t stand his girlfriend’s habit of talking on the phone. This didn’t matter. Xiao Wei was most afraid of his girlfriend’s frustration. He would drive him crazy all day long.
“The socks must not be littered, the quilt must be folded, and the right side must be folded. It is really annoying to eat, get up, and sleep every day. It is really annoying, and even later I would be afraid of hearing her voice.
In the end it was unbearable, I had to break up with her!
For a man who loves freedom, a woman who is forced to marry makes them scared. She has n’t had enough fun in her life. How could she be willing to be trapped? Xiao Wei ‘s girlfriend is hard to fight.I suddenly said that I wanted to buy a ring, and that it was faster for two people to work together to save money. I told my common friends that their wedding date was approaching, and even once said that they had not come and wanted to be married to Xiaowei Fengzi.
”I’m really afraid of being forced to marry.
When I still love her very much, although I was afraid of the forced marriage practices she still could endure: At that time, she said that her physiological period was slow. It might surprise me that she was pregnant. I was thinking about what to do?
Am I really going to marry her?
Fortunately, it was later confirmed that she was only slow and did not become pregnant, but I couldn’t bear the strange ways of forcing her to marry, and the breakup was not surprising.
“The whole world is betrayed by the whole world. There are high and low ebbs in life, but if one day life really falls to the bottom, everything will not go well, and the feeling that the world has abandoned you is the most frightening!
Case: Yiwen, 27 years old, bank clerk.
I don’t know how to do it, deep down in his heart, he always had a deep fear, fearing that one day he would lose everything.
“I do n’t know if I have watched more TV shows or I have n’t felt secure since I was a kid. Until now I went into the society, had a good job, and had a girlfriend who was talking about marriage. I still often think about whether one day I will suddenlyMy job is gone, my wife ran away, and I had no money. I could n’t even return home, and no one could bear it. It seemed that the worst things in the world happened to me, like the end of the world.
Wow, that feeling made me scared!
“Yiwen said that this sense of fear caused him to tremble, hoping to do the work he should do, be nice to the friends around him, and cherish all his possessions.”Will appear to me!
“Frustrated work in the workplace has no sense of accomplishment. It has been troubled by the boss all day long, but it has been hard for a long time without any results. It has even been completely overthrown. This kind of work in the workplace is most frightening for men.Hard work, all results in vain, really make men unbearable.
Case: Mr. Wang, 36 years old, sales.
“The sense of accomplishment at work is very important for men. After all, the company is where most men spend the most time and energy. If they can’t get approval at work, it is really painful.
And I am most afraid of encountering a boss who doesn’t appreciate you, nothing to tell you to do this, that will make you busy and sweaty, and then abandon your poor boss. It is simply a life under this kind of boss!
36-year-old Mr. Wang once experienced this kind of experience. He said that he could say that he lost all his self-confidence. He was nailed to work every day. From childhood to great success, he never felt so useless.Waking up thinking of going to work is very scary, I am afraid that I will not know how to be insulted by my boss when I go to the office today.
This kind of workplace frustration seriously affected his overall emotions. In the end, Mr. Wang realized that he really didn’t agree with his boss. After months of searching for food and food, Mr. Wang changed his job and the bossIt is very close to his philosophy and also supports his approach, and finally found the second spring of his career.
Suddenly, a child told his father to be careful all night and it was difficult to clean up. Suddenly he became a father and didn’t know it.
Case: Mr. Chen, 32 years old, manager.
It is a real example. One day after work, I saw my ex-girlfriend waiting for him downstairs in the office building. It was even stranger that he also took a cute kid. Mr. Chen thought that the two hadn’t contacted for several years. He wanted to come and the woman was already marriedBirth: I didn’t expect my girlfriend to tell him that he was the child’s father!
“At that time, my mind was blank. We have been breaking up for several years. She never told me about the child. After a long talk, I learned that she was pregnant before the break up. Because of her bad temper, she decided she wouldThe child was born, but now I think I should know it, so I brought the child to see me.
“The woman didn’t ask Mr. Chen to take responsibility, but Mr. Chen was very scared. The child was just a mold printed by him, but now that he has a girlfriend he wants, he really doesn’t know how to explain to his girlfriend and family?
How should I get along with my ex-girlfriend and this child?Should I take on my father’s responsibility?
Do you have a blood test to see if your child is really his own flesh?
“I have been upset and scared every day since a child suddenly appeared. I don’t know what to do to perfect it!
“Afraid of being old, afraid of getting sick. Don’t think that only women are afraid of getting old.
I picked up the photos from my college days and found out how my hair is so much less than before. Occasionally I went out with friends to have a drink, but Tan Xingzheng found that I could n’t bear the sleepy insects. I could n’t stay up late for two or three days like a young age.In the past, the most proud muscles gradually relaxed, the six pack became a muscle, and even the beer belly became rough!
Case: A Dong, 35 years old, director.
“To be honest, time is fair to both men and women. I used to hate women for fear of getting old, and then spent a lot of money on skin care products, or even plastic surgery, in an attempt to smooth the marks left by the years.
Now I find that the age of transformation is getting older and older, and I am also afraid of getting older. I really feel that my physical strength, appearance and menstruation are incomparable, and even the sex time is much worse than before.
It feels really scary to lose age and get older!
In addition to being afraid of being old, men are also afraid of getting sick. A sick man is embarrassed like a defeated rooster. Especially when he feels completely lost ownership and control, it makes many big men intolerable.
A Dong had stayed in the hospital for two days because of kidney stones, and those two days were neither standing nor sitting, which made A Dong suffer a lot.
“Wearing sick clothes, letting the nurse nurse and doctor call around, and undressing and trousers for all kinds of tests, dignity is lost!
Adong said that he was still young, just because the kidney stones had lived in the hospital for two days, and it was so uncomfortable. What if I suffered from a serious illness one day and not only suffered my own life but also burdened my family?